Getting to know her Fantasies
Posted on Sep 03 2009All men are known to be active thinkers of sex. People speak about how they are always thinking about women and sex. However, the fact of the matter is that women also think about sex a lot. But, of course, there are differences in the way both think about sex.
The differences are quite significant actually. When men fantasize, they prefer “seeing” things that arouse them. But women prefer “preparing a mental image”. Their sex fantasies are more creative than the sex fantasies of men who like the direct approach. In fact, this is why women enjoy foreplay more than men do.
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A stimulating conversation could act as effectively as an aphrodisiac for a woman, while men are aroused by a mere touch. Men must understand that women get turned on in a different way than they do and that is when they can have a good sexual relationship with them. The following are some things that men must do in order to get their women aroused.
1. Make your woman happy by telling her things that she would like to hear. You could praise her looks and her performance in bed. When you say such things, women are completely bowled over and they will actually perform better.
2. Gift your woman a more extensive foreplay. Men don’t lay much stock by this preliminary activity, but it is important that you participate in it to keep your woman happy. This can include fondling and caressing her, kissing her and playing with her body in other ways.
3. Try to touch every nook and cranny of the woman’s body.
4. One great way of getting her aroused is to stimulate her orally before you expect her to do the same to you. This can make her go berserk.
5. Remember that a sexual experience with a woman is not confined to the bed. If you gift her flowers, take her to a nice meal, simply hold hands for a while, the woman is going to be putty in your hands when it comes to sex later on.
You might be trying to think now how these things fit in with what her fantasies are. The point here is to make the woman comfortable so that she has complete faith in you. When that happens, she won’t mind sharing her innermost fantasies with you.
Women are demonstrative. If they understand that you care for them, they will even do things like hug you in public.
The most interesting thing is when you and her have some fantasies about the same thing. If that happens, you could broach the subject about your fantasies and a lot more can emerge.
You are certainly quite possessive about your fantasies. You have to realize that women think the same way about their fantasies too. Do not leave her high and dry or the relationship itself might begin floundering.
Keep an open line of conversation and take good care of your woman. When she feels that you are trustworthy, she will voluntarily start speaking of her fetishes and fantasies to you.
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