Getting to know her Fantasies
Posted on Sep 03 2009Men are known to think about sex almost all the time, even fantasize about it. They have a reputation that they will never let an opportunity pass and won’t miss a single sight that comes their way. But, what really needs to be understood here is that women fantasize about sex in almost the same manner as men do.
The differences are quite significant actually. When men fantasize, they prefer “seeing” things that arouse them. But women prefer “preparing a mental image”. Their sex fantasies are more creative than the sex fantasies of men who like the direct approach. In fact, this is why women enjoy foreplay more than men do.
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There are women who can get greatly turned on just by an arousing conversation. Men, however, will prefer to get aroused by something that physically or visually touches them. But, men should know what women really want. They must understand that the arousal for women is different from theirs and they should be sensitive. If you want to make your woman really happy, here are some ways that you can go about it.
1. Tell something to the woman that gives her great pleasure. Probably, you could tell her something about herself, i.e. how good she is in bed, how good she looks, etc. When you appease your woman through such banter, she will reciprocate in good measure.
2. Prolong the foreplay. Women want more of it than men. Foreplay must include things like kissing, fondling, caressing and even playing with her hair. This is what makes her wet down below, making the sexual act a highly pleasurable experience.
3. Try to touch every nook and cranny of the woman’s body.
4. One great way of getting her aroused is to stimulate her orally before you expect her to do the same to you. This can make her go berserk.
5. Remember that a sexual experience with a woman is not confined to the bed. If you gift her flowers, take her to a nice meal, simply hold hands for a while, the woman is going to be putty in your hands when it comes to sex later on.
Now, you might be thinking what all this has to do with the fantasies she harbours. But, you must realize that most women won’t speak upfront about the fantasies that they have. You have to make her trust you completely. When she does that, she will slowly open out to you.
Women are demonstrative. If they understand that you care for them, they will even do things like hug you in public.
It is also possible that the two of you have some common fantasies. If that is the case, it is truly great because you can play it out together. If you understand this connection, the woman will open out quicker and be willing to try out the fantasy.
You are certainly quite possessive about your fantasies. You have to realize that women think the same way about their fantasies too. Do not leave her high and dry or the relationship itself might begin floundering.
Keep an open line of communication. Don’t be hesitant to talk about sex with her. Let her feel comfortable with the topic. Then you will find her fantasies tumbling out.
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