How to Introduce Sex Toys To A Relationship Carefully
Posted on Oct 05 2009Seduction is a slow and attentive process where both partners entice one another in the game of seeking pleasure. Great lovers know when to move on and when to hold back during this love play.
Pay attention to the signals from you partner as they will show you when to move faster with the process or maybe they need a slower approach to give them time to get used to the idea.
Sometimes couples who have just started dating find it a bit easier to introduce sex toys as they are on a journey of discovering, finding out about each others likes and dislikes. Couples that have been together for years may not know how to introduce sex toys to a relationship as they never tried this before, there is not time to try like the present.
Usually one of the sex partners has a need or fetish related to toys and wants to share this with his love interest. The worse thing this partner can do is to whip out a foreign object and insist that it will be fun. Slow and a careful introduction works best.
Start the introduction by using a well known every day article that you discreetly place next to the bed. Men may use a pen to draw lines on the woman, circling her nipples and writing a love poem on her belly. Kiss the areas you wrote upon passionately and let her see how much she may enjoy this kind of love play.
Move on to a new object during your next love session, but this time focus on her virgina, tickling and stimulating her with the object. Her enjoyment now takes the most attention and care as you want her to thoroughly enjoy the strangeness of what you are doing.
Should all you efforts still get a negative response from your partner, it maybe time to give it up. Avoid frustration building up in the relationship by talking openly about your needs for sex toys.
Always keep your partners whishes in mind where sex toys are concerned. If they are completely against any form of play, you may find yourself frustrated. Share this with your partner and find some compromise where you may use a personal toy on yourself during love making. Show your partner how much you are enjoying this and soon they might just get interested as well.
If not, keep the toys for times when you are alone and pleasuring yourself. Be open about this so that your partner will not think you are replacing him or her. Reassure them that you cannot cuddle a sex toy and they don’t keep you warm at night.
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