How To Start Out With Bondage Sex
Posted on Feb 19 2009Most of us have never tried bondage sex and so they never know how good or bad it can be. Most are just put off by all those gags and masks and do not even want to try it. But, everything needs trying out at least once. And considering that there are so many blogs about people raving about this kind of sexual lifestyle, it would not be completely wrong to try it out with your partner at least once, would it?
Get a partner for your Bondage Sex
Introduce the Concept with Care
One of your biggest obstacles would be to get your partner to be willing for bondage role-play. If they are conservative, they might even be appalled or scared stiff by the idea. You do not want to mar your relationship, so broach the subject carefully.
A good idea is to introduce some light bondage elements in your normal sexual activity. Like, you could tie them or allow to be tied up yourself with something gentle like a stocking. See if the sexual excitement in the room increases. If it does, you could begin trying out some more raunchy stuff.
Select the Equipment Carefully
There are so many things pertaining to bondage sex out there and some of them are really dangerous! It is good to understand what these things can really do before you use them. Cock and ball torture equipment and nipple clamps may look sexy, but do you really want to use them on yourself?
Do remember the basic ethics of asking your partner about using any bondage device on them. Check out the Internet, especially the blogs, and you will find reviews on what equipment other people are using.
Do not cross Lines!
Another thing to do before you begin is to determine how far you would go. Set limits for the activities you are trying out. You could establish some words or gestures that would indicate your partner to stop when things start getting too rough. Also, you must decide in advance who would be the dominant and who would be the submissive partner if you are trying some role-playing bondage sex.
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