Toys For Adults Were a Great Discovery for Me, and All From a Coffee Date
Posted on Jul 15 2010Adults play in their own way, and for many adults this means sex. Sex toys are aptly named as the kind of toys that adults play with and who would have believe that a simple coffee date would lead to my discovery of these fascinating aids.
“Coffee Date” has always had a strange connotation for me. I find the over-use of this euphemism a little odd, perhaps because I have never appreciated the fine art of coffee drinking. I would rather have a beer in a bar or a cup of green tea. But today if you want to meet people you have to be prepared for the “coffee date”.
If I was going to get any dates at all I realized that the inevitable “coffee date” was going to have to be kept and this is how Gary and I met. Fortunately we clicked straight away and I have to admit when I met him, drinking coffee was furthest from my mind. All I could think wa s – “oo, I would like to shag you”. So we started seeing each other and things soon got serious.
It didn’t take long for us to start talking about sex, and like the mature adults we are we discussed it in depth before we actually tried it. He was easy to speak to and I felt comfortable, he also brought up the subject of Sex toys; not something I had really got into before.
My last relationship wasn’t terribly sexual and in fact, this was why I had given up on it and allowed it to die a slow and painless death.
From the very word go, Gary and I hade embarked upon a journey of discovery together and from this honesty, we launched out exploration of sex toys. It is hard to believe that a subject like this could be meaningful, but it is.
I consider myself incredibly lucky to have found Gary, he is a modern man with modern views on female sexuality and this for me is refreshing. Shopping for sex toys has become just as much fun as experimenting with them.
I was a bit shy in the beginning and didn’t fancy walking into a sex shop, so we shopped online. Then we discovered a new way to add to our collection. Adult party plan! I have hosted a few parties and grown a whole new circle of like-minded friends, as well as added to my collection of adult toys, lingerie, lotions potions and all kinds of goodies.
It’s amazing the changes in my life, all from a little bit of honesty, a coffee date and a handful of sex toys. I am kept satisfied and happy, Gary is kept satisfied and happy and I have a load of satisfied and very happy friends too , we all have such a good time together.
